Our self-beliefs (or internal programming) determine our conscious behavior. Anyone who has tried to give up smoking or lose weight using willpower alone will attest to the strength of these self-beliefs. We have thousands of these subconscious self-beliefs that govern all areas of our lives.
Where do self-beliefs come from? Mostly they develop in us at a very young age. It's interesting to note that, unlike adults, children spend the majority of their waking time in the alpha region. Most of our adult behaviors are based on "programming" we picked up before the age of 5 or 6. But then as we get older we lose the ability to stay in the alpha state, mainstream education sees to that.
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Are you still not sure about how this applies to getting pregnant? Here's the crunch: When it comes to getting results, your self-belief (programming) will always win out over your conscious desire.
That means that no matter how much you consciously think that you want a baby, no matter how desperate you feel about it or how certain you are that it's "the right thing for you", if you have an underlying self-belief (program) that is stopping you from falling pregnant, then it won't happen.
Let me be very clear on this. If you have never applied any of the techniques I'm about to describe, then you probably have no idea that you have an underlying self-belief that is sabotaging your ability to fall pregnant. Your immediate reaction is probably "What rubbish! I really, really, really want a baby. How can you tell me that deep down inside I don't want one?" This is a perfectly natural reaction.
Let me give you another (non-pregnancy related) example where you can see these "hidden self-beliefs" sabotaging people's dreams.
It's everyone's dream to win the lottery, right? Billions of dollars are spent every year by people all over the world wanting to "win the big one". A few years ago, one of the state lotteries decided to do a study for their 20th anniversary. The idea was to interview everyone who had had a "big win" and show how it changed their lives.
What do you think they found? Most of their "big winners" were now flat broke, with a string of broken relationships and shattered dreams behind them. Why?
What you've just learned about brain structure gives you the answer. Before winning the lottery, most of these people had a self-belief that "I'm always broke", "I live from pay-check to pay-check" and "I can never make ends meet". Suddenly they have a million dollars in the bank!
We know that whenever there is a difference between your conscious desire (to live happily on your newfound fortune) and your subconscious self-belief ("I'm always broke and I can never make ends meet"), then your subconscious self-belief always wins out.
So people make bad investment decisions, spend big and have nothing left to show for it. Soon they are back where they started, driven by their self-belief. Often the reverse is true too. Most of us know of people who've been wealthy, lost the lot on a poor investment decision, but in just a few years are back on top financially. Their self-belief that "I'm wealthy" drives their behavior to get them back to where they "feel" right.
Here's something else to understand - your subconscious mind does not make value judgements. It does not decide if a self-belief is a good thing or a bad thing. It is just like a computer program. It just is.
So when it comes to getting pregnant, all of this creates a dilemma: If you have been unable to fall pregnant, it may be a result of a subconscious self-belief or emotional blockage.
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If you have a subconscious self-belief or emotional blockage preventing you from falling pregnant, you are unlikely to realize it.
You are almost certainly not consciously aware of what the blockage is. Subconscious self-beliefs cannot be identified and changed at the beta/rational/thinking level. But here's the amazing thing: You can change your subconscious. You can re-program your subconscious by yoga and meditation. To find out more, you can check out Female Infertility Causes.
